I am definitely my mom’s daughter. The ability to rationalize my Anthropologie shopping, the preference to skip to the end of a book and then read the middle, and most importantly…. our love of cake. Don’t get me wrong, I love all desserts. Brownies? Of course I’m down. Blondies? I may love those more than brownies. Frozen yogurt? One of the main reasons I can’t go vegan. But deep down, I’m a cake kind of girl, and so is my mom. Our gazes skim over the pies and cookies and instead linger on the cakes at bakeries. When I want to throw together a quick dessert one night, it’s often my favorite chocolate cake.
Not surprisingly, my mom loved it when I emailed her two lists of cakes I could bake her for her birthday – lists that included a tuxedo cake, a chocolate overload cake, a hummingbird cake, and a banana cake. She looked at pictures of each, and all she could say was the tuxedo cake sounded good. No excitement, no certainty. Not quite the reaction I wanted from her while choosing a birthday cake. I compiled one final list, and instantly she knew what she wanted – Joy’s Big Berry Birthday Cake. Her eyes lit up as she read through the recipe out loud, and I’m pretty sure she didn’t finish reading through the list.
The cake sounded perfect for summer, when all we want to eat are berries and salads to beat the heat: a light but still dense white cake, a whipped vanilla buttercream rather similar to whipped cream, and lots of berries inside and on top of the cake. And perfect it was. It didn’t last long – only a few days among three people. We’d start off with small slices, then return for another small slice as the icing continued to soften. What an incredible way to enjoy the summer’s berries.
And to my mom – happy belated birthday! I couldn’t be more grateful to be your daughter.

Berry Vanilla Cake Recipe:
Adapted from Joy the Baker’s Big Berry Birthday Cake
- 1 cup butter, room temperature
- 1 3/4 cup sugar
- 4 eggs, room temperature
- 1 cup milk
- 1 Tbsp vanilla extract
- 1/2 tsp vanilla bean paste
- 2 3/4 cup all-purpose flour
- 1 1/2 tsp baking powder
- 1/2 tsp salt
- 1/3 cup blueberries
- 1/2 cup mixed berries (I used raspberries, blackberries and blueberries – but sliced strawberries would be lovely too) to go between the cake layers
1. Grease and flour two 8″ round cake pans, and preheat your oven to 350.
2. Cream together the butter and sugar until the mixture is fluffy and a pale yellow – about 5 minutes.
3. Add in the eggs one at a time, mixing thoroughly and scraping down the sides of the bowl if necessary.
4. In another bowl, whisk together the flour, baking powder and salt.
5. Take 1-2 tsp of the flour mixture and toss with the blueberries in a separate bowl. Set aside.
6. In another bowl, mix the milk, vanilla extract and vanilla bean paste.
7. Alternating with the milk/vanilla mixture, mix the flour mixture with the butter and sugar in three different batches on a low speed.
8. Carefully fold in the blueberries, then divide the batter between two pans.
9. Bake for 35-40 minutes (took 35 in my oven), until the cake is done and springs back lightly.
10. Cool in the pans for 10 minutes, then remove cakes from pans to cool on a wire rack.
Vanilla Buttercream Recipe
Adapted from Joy the Baker’s Big Berry Birthday Cake
- 1 cup butter, softened
- 1 cup sugar
- 1 cup milk
- 1/4 cup flour, sifted
- 1 1/2 Tbsp vanilla extract
- 1 tsp almond extract (because I had no rose water)
1. Whisk together the milk, flour, and vanilla in a small saucepan over medium heat, making sure to get out all the lumps. Whisk constantly to keep the mixture from forming lumps as it heats up. Bring to a low boil.
2. Just as the mixture begins to boil, reduce the heat to low and continue to whisk as it thickens.
3. When the mixture begins to thicken, remove the pan from heat and cool to room temperature. This is really importantly. Make sure it’s really room temperature. If you’re in a huge hurry, rest the pan on top of some ice or in the freezer.
4. Cream the butter on medium speed until it’s soft. Add the sugar, then increase the speed to high. Cream together until the mixture is light and fluffy – a pale yellow, about 5 minutes. Scrape down the sides of the bowl as needed.
5. Reduce the mixer speed to low. Slowly add the room temperature milk/flour mixture to the butter and sugar, then increase the speed to medium. Beat until the mixture is light and whipped – about 5 minutes. Add in the almond extract (or rose water or more vanilla if you’d prefer), then beat for another minute. This won’t be the same texture as most buttercreams – definitely a more whipped buttercream.
When assembling the cake, make sure the layer of frosting between the two cake layers is thick enough to hold the berries.


